Tuesday, November 9, 2021

My Return..........2021 AC (After Covid).........LOL


Hi Readers,

How are you? Normally you would think ... Long time no see... true... very long time and I have not seen and written my blog. Away from Me world for very very long time.. Where to start .. I am lost.. 
Normally I wrote blogs when my inner self spoke to me peacefully... It discussed with me what it felt within me and I used to write those thoughts on my
blog. But I feel my inner self has stopped speaking to me or perhaps its too loud out here that I can't here her...
Hopefully I should be able to justify my relation with her now...
See you soon... wait for my next blog...


Wednesday, January 24, 2018

A LOST IDENTITY

She loved she cared, 
But the world decided, 
She need not be spared. 

She was classy, 
She was polished, 
But the world decided, 
She should be demolished. 

She was brave, 
She was fighter, 
But the world decided, 
Her desires should be in grave. 

"Arise,  awake,  stop not",  she thought. 
No matter what world decides, 
It's time she fought. 

No one can stop her now, 
She's fighter,  she's brave, 
She'll now put entire world in grave. 

Saturday, May 7, 2011

♥♥♥Soul Mate♥♥♥



Like sun and planets,
Like moon and stars,
You were with me to fill up my scars,
You are someone I can always depend on,
You are the one to bring sunshine to my life,
More than a lover and always a friend,
You are the one on whom I would always depend.

When I close my eyes I hear your voice,
And know that you are safe,
It is when a smile lightens up my face.

No matter if the road to happiness is on bumpier side,
As long as you are by my side,
I can handle storms,
I can handle rough weather,
And life is beautiful,
As long as we are together.

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

♥♥♥╰» ѕιℓєη¢є♥♥♥


Silence:



Silence is consent. Silence is also speech. It is that one thing that is within you, that is perfect, that is your analyst and that guides you. Silence is your best friend. It is one thing that always holds on to you no matter what situation you are into. It is the same thing which has been at your birth, during your youth, now and when you will be dead. This is your "you-ness."Some have called this your true self. It has never changed as per the situations in your life. There are times when Silence stands for you. It is your loudest voice. No matter Silence is quiet still it speaks many words that a normal conversation cant.

Silence is direct conversation with god. It is awareness. Awareness about god, awareness about surroundings and finally awareness about yourself. Our only problem is that we have been taught and conditioned by years and years of belief systems that we are not in touch with that which is infinite, that which is unnamed, unknowable and all mighty.

And so we have invented philosophies and religions and techniques and there have been prophets and messiahs and teachers and gurus and a myriad of self-help seminars and books about all. There is nothing to find out which is not already here right now. There is nothing to understand, nothing to learn ,nothing to experience, no enlightenment, no salvation, no heaven and no hell, no savior and no devil. There is only a subtle awareness you have right now that you are and that this awareness is gentle, silent and loving.





.......and I am back.

Hi Readers,

Its been long that I had a chance to converse with you'll. New job, M Com studies and other responsibilities kept me so busy that I never had a chance to write my thoughts out.
But the repercussions were worst. I had nothing to de stress myself.
My writings are my soul, My thoughts are my voice and my readers are my strength..

I am happy to be back and be part of you.

Do keep reading my dear ones..

Loads of love,

Regards,

Harsha

Monday, December 27, 2010

ܔܢܜܔA StReEtWaLkEr(๏̯͡๏)


She was beautiful and serene. She was innocent and alone. She was divine. She studied in the university and worked in a cafe to survive. Her evenings would be packed with trays, coffee, cookies and customers. He laughed and made people laugh too. She was that cafe's life.
"Eve, what time you leaving?" asked the owner.
"In Five minutes, Jack" she said."Its 12.00 darling and you have to walk quite a distance."
"Jack, I'll just finish these pending work and would leave in sometime."
"Alright Eve take care. See you tomorrow."
"Bye Jack"She was winding up with the pending work in the cafe and was ready to leave in a minute when she saw someone in a long black coat and a black stetson. She thought him to be a customer she went out of the cafe to see who he was but it was too dark to figure out specially at that distance where he was standing."Excuse me, Cafe is close. Do you need help or something?"
He didn't answer. "Well, hello can you here me?"
Without saying a word he walked
off.
She was confused for a second. That behavior was unnatural she thought. But it didn't make much difference to her in anyway.
She locked the cafe and started walking towards her house. It was 12.30 am and lanes were empty. It was December winters so it was
too dark as well.
She walked down the lane towards her house. The lane was too dark and scary but that was the only way she could walk down.
While walking down the lane she noticed a house everyday. The house was across the street and vacant for years. Dark and isolated like always but today
she saw a light and a rocking chair moving. "Were the Johnson's back?" she thought. "Who on Earth would live in the old Johnson place after what Johnson had done to his wife and family in that old house." She wondered.
But then she walked towards her house without any delay.
It was fresh morning and it was snowing. Temperature dropped down maximum this year. It was early morning and she was going towards the University while passing by she saw a man standing near the lamp port. To her he resembled the same man she saw saw outside cafe. He wore black coat and black stetson and a sigar in his mouth. She wondered who he was and was he trying to follow h
er?

Not delaying much she ran towards the university. She decided to inform the owner of the cafe regarding the same once she is done with the university.
It was evening and almost dark due to winters. She had to go to cafe as well. She walked quickly towards the cafe. As soon as she reached the cafe she told Jack about the man whom she saw outside the cafe last night.
"Ha Ha Ha" laughed Jack
"Don't worry darling must be someone who must have lost his way. You need not worry. I am here" Jack convinced her.
Her evening went fine serving customers but she couldn't stop thinking about that man. He in her vision now and she couldn't remove him from her thoughts.
There were questions in her mind for which she required answers. Who, why, what , when all sorts of unanswered questions she had in her mind but now she had to concentrate on her work that was more important.

It was 12.00 am when cafe closed Jack was with her. She couldn't find the man and asked Jack to leave and that she would be fine. Jack left home and she went her way. Tonight again while walking towards her home she saw lights in that
house and the same rocking chair moving and a man who was smoking. She kept walking ahead when suddenly lights went off.
She was now scared. Lane was dark and she was alone in that isolated area. Creatures made sounds. There were bats flying around and suddenly the lane that she was so familiar with became strange.

She started running towards her house. While running fast she dashed with the same man who was outside the cafe and university. She fell down. She was scared and panting badly. She felt she would die here with Asthmatic attack. She was so shocked that her scream was not that loud enough to reach some one's ears.

She couldn't see his face but she tried to run as fast as she could to save herself but he ran too and he was too fast and with no delay he almost matched her pace.
He caught hold of her. She tried to escape but he pulled her c
lose. He removed her hat and came close to her.

"Jack?"
"That's you?" Eve shouted.

"Whats all this?" she enquired

"I love you darling come to me" he said

"Why me Jack?" she questioned

"Do you hurt the person you love this way?"

"Yes" he answered.

"I'll kill you and preserve you with me"

She was unable to understand what he was trying to say. He carried her on his shoulders.
She sobbed, she screamed, she pleaded but he didn't pity her.
"Jack, wait put me down" she screamed
He took her inside the house.
she kicked him and punched him on his face and ran inside and hid behind the closet. It was dark and he tried to hunt her down. She ran downstairs in the basement trying to hide from him.
The moment she reached downstairs she couldn't breathe. It was stinking bad. She was trying to find a suitable place to hide but suddenly she tripped over something and fell off. She couldn't refrain herself from screaming. That was Mrs. Johnson an
d further more she saw his kids as well wrapped in a plastic. What had he done to his family? how were they still the same. she tried to touch Mrs. Johnson. Oh No! he has covered them with wax to preserve them. She tried to get up and run but found him behind him. He pushed her down so that she could fall and came close to her.

"Jack what have you done to them?"

"I told you my love remember that I cherish and preserve people I love"

"That's what I have done Eve and I love you too and can't let you go away from me."

"No Jack, please don't do this to me" She pleaded.

He didn't listen she kicked him and pushed him hard and ran. She went upstairs and tried to search for a phone. She dialed 911 and called for police.

He pushed her and hit her badly she ran and tried to save herself and in a while police reached there and caught hold of Jack Johnson. Police cleared the dead bodies of his wife and children too.




Thursday, December 2, 2010

╚»»♥«Ă ČĤĨĹĎ'Ś ĂŔŤ »♥« «╝




He drew on canvas sky and birds,

He drew orange sun and blue water,

He drew a beach a hut and a tree,

When he was asked what he drew,

He replied,

"Its my first scenery and this is my hut,

I would live here alone and free"

Why alone he was asked,

He said,

"World is full of hatred and many are insane,

I will live here alone away from all the pain."

"People don't love people don't laugh,

People kill their brothers and they won't spare others."

"To them matters pride and matters money,

To me matters love and matters harmony."


Monday, November 29, 2010

●๋•"í wíکh ýőừ wểŕể wí✝h mể.."ツ



I walked alone on the beach,

I wish you were with me,

Orange rays beautiful horizon,

I wish you were with me,

Blue sea, cool sand,
blowing breeze touched me

Waves clashed and Boats sailed,
I wish you were here with me.

People walked hand in hand,
People shared Love,

I see love in the air,

I wish you were here with me.

We hugged, We kissed,
We loved,
we bathe,
We played,

Today I walk alone..

I wish you were with me.

Friday, October 22, 2010

CORRUPTION - A NAKED TRUTH

In my previous blogs, I have written fiction articles but today I decided to go social. Corruption has been part of our daily lives. We can't get rid of it 100% even if we want it.
I have mentioned two cases below completely opposite to each other. It shows a clear picture how our country is getting degraded because of corruption.

CASE 1:
"Instead of tax loopholes that incentivise investment in overseas jobs," Obama said in a speech in Ohio, "I’m proposing a more generous, permanent extension of the tax credit that goes to companies for all the research and innovation they do right here in Ohio, right here in the United States of America."
Barak Obama as a president has taken many initiatives for the welfare of his people. Right from the day he was elected till date his every speech has inspired every single American Cell and his words are threat to every single individual in India and China. Why a threat?
In the Month of September 2010, Mr. President in his speech announced that all the companies off shoring business in countries like India and China or would get a tax benefit so that they start investing in US and people of US get employed. It’s because of unemployment that the youth is falling in wrong hands. Theft, drugs, robbery have become very common on streets. People have no jobs but credit facility as mostly US economy runs on Credit facility. People having no jobs are unable to pay their dues resulting into sub prime losses resulting into a huge destruction to US Economy.


CASE 2:
A very famous case about corruption in news papers relating to Common Wealth Games. Committee Chairman Suresh Kalmadi plundered almost Rs 200 crores by increasing the expenses by 30% compared to actually value of the services and commodities procured. A net
expenditure of around Rs. 700 crore is said to be including such fraudulent deals whereas the investment should not be more than be Rs. 500 Crores.
After the games were over, the fight between Sheila Dixit and Suresh Kalmadi was in news blaming each other. These politicians blaming each other show how corrupt our most of the politicians of India are! They do not even think before spending the tax payer's money whether they are spending it sensibly or not. AND then I see an advertisement in newspapers to pay my part of income as tax for the development of the country and its people. I think its enough. We need Mr Kalmadi and Mrs Dixit to show us all the financial documents about where they spend each single Rupee on the name of the games. If there is a forgery in the balance sheet they need to pay the balance from their own pockets


The Main reason to highlight the above two cases were that, In CASE 1 where Mr. President was ready to cut the Tax so that his people get employed again and In CASE 2 we have our leaders utilizing our money for their selfish motives.


Aresh Shirali, Executive editor of A&M Magazine says, "Like most people of my age group, I am nauseated by the epidemic proportions. Corruption has acquired India. It is literally under every stone you turn."


Corruption is in every Alley you turn into, every nook and cranny you might care to peep into. It happens as much as in broad daylight and it does behind close doors. Rise in corruption in our society is because of us. 50% corruption rise is because people pay bribe because either they are too busy to waste time or they are too lazy to wait for their turn and rest 50% is due to those people who refuse to work without a bribe but if considered Big picture its US/We Public and We Public elect politicians and in turn giving our country and our economy in the hands of bunch of corrupt leaders and then its We Public complaining about Corruption. So to conclude I would say Corruption is a viscous circle that starts with We Public and revolves around us and has no end.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

"Smile........A Source of Inspiration!!!"


Today, give a stranger one of your smiles. It might be the only sunshine he sees all day. ~Quoted in P.S. I Love You, compiled by H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

It is said "A smile is a curve that sets everything straight"

That Diamond Smile.. That Killer Smile.. That stops your heart for a second.. That Smile you are ready to die for.. That smile for which you would give up your world..
What is a Smile? Ideally the the defination says , "A smile is a facial expression formed by flexing the muscles near both ends of the mouth." But I would say "Its a source of Inspiration"
A simple smile can ease tension. It can win battles. It is used to show emotions. It has no religion no lauguage .. no one can differentiate between two peoples smile. There are different types of smiles. A smile can be naughty, flirtatous, wicked, sober, so on and so forth.

Thailand is called as "Land of Smiles". Normally, A Thailand labour is so cheap that they dont even earn $200 a month but still they smile. Its their normal gesture. Even if they spill a cofee on your shirt the look wont be embarassing but they would smile and apologise because a smile can kill anger.

But the smile (YIM in Thai) is perceived in Thailand as being just about the most appropriate reaction to any possible situation. It's used to show happiness, embarrassment, fear, tension, resignation, remorse etc.. What smile means depends upon the type being used.

For eg;
Yim tak tai : The polite smile, used for strangers or people you barely know.
Feun yim : I've been forced to smile even though i dont want to.
Yim Cheuat Cheuan: The smile a winner gives to a losing rival.
Yim Tak Tan : The sorry but you're wrong and I am right smile
So my friends keep smiling, you never know who might be in love with your smile.. :-)

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

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The idea of relationships clicked at 7 in the morning when I was walking down towards my gym and I saw two instances to define Relationships. That was a very touching moment in my life..
The first instance was when I saw two school going kids - Elder Brother and Younger Sister. As far as I can guess the age difference would be two years not more.
Brother was walking too fast and sister managed to cope up her speed with his but eventually couldn't seeing that brother stopped for a while and told her "Tension mat le main slow chalta hu, Tu andar se chal aur main bahar chalunga" saying this he caught her her hand and they headed towards the school.
Second instance that I saw was two blind couple at bus stop. I always felt that Love might be blind but I am not. I guy for me should be a person who is well settled, presentable personality, good height and so on.. I felt Love automatcally comes with happiness and happiness comes with well settled life where there is no struggle but all my perceptions vanished when I saw a blind couple. I could see Love between them. They cant't see, They hardly earn, They live hand to mouth still they are happy and love each other.
I went through some sites that said ways of happy relationships. Here are few:
Start Over:
When couples first get together, everything is new and exciting. They overlook the little annoying things the other person does. However, after time, the nagging starts, instead of hearing, "You look beautiful," they might hear "Why are you wearing that shirt?" If this sounds like your relationship, first, the two of you need to sit down and be honest that things have changed. Identify the things each other did in the beginning of the relationship that created the attraction in the first place. Then together, make a commitment to start over. The truth is, both of you will have to work on this. It will not automatically be easy but it is possible. Start by forgiving each other, forgetting the past, and then start over with the flirtation. Focus only on the special things your mate does and relearn to put the unimportant things aside. It will take some time so be patient.
Schedule Time
Spending quality time together is crucial. This time can be with friends, dining out, attending a sporting event, or cuddling together while watching a favorite movie. The activity is not what is important but the fact that you are together, doing something that you both enjoy. People have extremely busy schedules and between work, family, the home, errands, and everything else going on, finding time for your mate can be difficult. Just as you would schedule a meeting on your calendar, show some courtesy in the relationship by scheduling time with each other. Once the plan is in place, no backing out unless you have some life and death emergency.

The Power Of Touch
When a child is ill, doctors will tell you that it is proven that a simple, loving touch of a parent can quickly pull the child through a crisis. It is the same for relationships. Playing with your mate's hair, rubbing their hand, a soft kiss on the neck, a soft pat on the leg or giving a gentle back rub will make a huge difference in how your mate responds to you. When was the last time you walked up to your mate for no reason and without saying a word, affectionately placed a kiss on their neck? This is not in a sexual way, but an affectionate way. There is a difference. The next time the two of you are sitting in the car, at the grocery story, or standing in line at the theater, quietly reach over and take their hand. Do not be surprised if you get a strange look of curiosity the first time!

Surprise
If you and your mate have scheduled some time for a Friday night dinner, put together a surprise instead. For example, if your mate loves professional wrestling, buy some tickets near the front or if they like concerts, purchase the tickets ahead of time, getting the best seats possible. When Friday night comes around, insist on driving and head toward the location where the event is taking place. When asked where you are going, simply answer, "I have a surprise for you. I know you love professional wrestling so I purchased two great seats for tonight's performance," or "I know we had planned on going to dinner, but I wanted to surprise you with something special. I purchased tickets to see one of your favorite groups in concert." The idea of you getting the tickets for something THEY like and then keeping it as a special surprise will touch their heart!

Needed Space
As important as it is to spend quality time together, it is equally important to give each other time to do something they like. If your mate loves to fish but you have no desire to bait a hook with little, slimy worms, or if you like to go to the casino but your mate would rather do something different, encourage each other to take time apart. Try establishing a set time for this very purpose, if possible. For example, perhaps you could determine that every other Friday night is "singles" night. This is not a time to date other people, but to enjoy preferred activities. Remember that you have to place trust in your relationship. If you try this and then drill them, to see what they did, whom they were with, and where they went, then the exercise has failed.
No Debates
If you know that you and your mate have proven differences in opinion on certain subjects, avoid those subjects. As an example, if you are a Republican and your mate is a Democrat, politics should probably be avoided. As the two of you identify new topics that could cause a debate session, stop the conversation before it even gets started.

Filter Talk
If you are married, especially with children, break out of the habit of talking about nothing. Many times, families will be sitting around the dinner table and the conversation consists of, "Do you like your carrots?", or "I wonder what is on TV tonight?" Instead, change your strategy to include real questions, showing real interest. Replace the normal, "Did you have a good day at work?" with "Tell me what you did at work today." Even if you do not understand everything being said, listen with interest. It is not that you are so much interested in the work, but your mate's life.

Re-Establish Old Traditions
If you and your mate had a tradition of some kind when you first got together, dust it off and breathe life back into it. Perhaps you met after work on Friday at the local pub for a drink, washed your cars together every Saturday morning, or attended church together on Sunday. Whatever it was, re-establish the tradition.

Predictability
If asking couples the factors involved in the demise of their relationship, one of the common responses is that everything in the relationship is so predictable. When rebuilding a relationship, do not be afraid of letting go of boredom. If you normally hate the fact that Saturday afternoons consist of your mate sitting for hours watching football, fix some finger sandwiches and something cool to drink and go join them on the couch, or if your mate spends hours in the garden trying to make things look perfect, surprise them with a new flowering plant, and then help to plant it. When taking a walk with your mate, stop and give them a soft kiss, say, "I love you," and then keep walking. Take some chances and do the unexpected.

Lighten Up
Often when couples have gone through or are going through some bumpy spots in their relationship, things tend to get serious. It could be that there is a tremendous amount of tension or perhaps they are not sure what to say. Regardless of the reason, learn to lighten up. Do not take every comment, glance, or movement as a serious problem. If your mate makes a mistake, which you both will, let it go, or if appropriate, laugh about it. If you make a mistake, do not be afraid to poke fun at yourself. This will automatically start the process of tension breaking.
Communicate
When couples are having problems in a relationship, communication is the first thing to stop. It is often easier to just be quiet than to get mad. When rebuilding relationships, just as communication was the first to stop, it now needs to be the first to start. This will require that both individuals let down their guard and pretty much throw caution to the wind. Healing in the relationship cannot start until you talk. Make an agreement that you will talk about anything and everything and that you will listen, really listen. That does not mean that you will agree with everything, which is perfectly fine. However, if you do not agree, do not yell, rather, the two of you need to calmly discuss the issue and together, work out a solution. This is hard work but within a very short time, you will both feel much better, individually and as a couple.

A Night Of Passion
Intimacy and passion in relationships is not only important but also healthy. Couples need to enjoy being together in an intimate way. When relationships are troubled, the last thing either person wants is to be sexual or passionate with each other. However, this is a part of the healing and rebuilding of the relationship and although it might be awkward in the beginning, it is crucial. Make your intimate time together special. Surprise your mate with a warm bubble bath, lighted candles, soft music, and a bottle of wine, or reserve a nice romantic evening at a local hotel to include a wonderful candlelit dinner, fine wine, and a beautiful room.

Dinner Party
Start a new tradition of hosting a dinner party every other month or two and inviting several of you and your mate's friends. Set up board games that everyone will enjoy, have some light and lively music playing, and plan to have a blast. Spending time with friends in this kind of setting is a great way to reduce stress. When stress is low, couples get along better. This is a wonderful way to interact with each other's friends as a couple.

Happy Birthday
As people grow older, in general, birthdays become less celebrated. Gifts are quickly given, meals eaten, and it is over. For your mate's next birthday, take some time to plan something very special. Make this a true celebration of their life as a way of showing your love and appreciation. Every person, even adults, like attention and love to be appreciated. Whether a surprise party or not, your mate will be impressed that you went to all the effort just for them.

Secret Getaway
Plan a nice weekend getaway to some place off the beaten track where you can enjoy some privacy. A quaint cottage or charming bed and breakfast would be ideal choices. Scout out the area ahead of time and choose a few things that the two of you would like to do in the area but just be sure to leave plenty of time for you to enjoy some alone time. Order a nice bottle of wine or some hot cappuccino and relax in front of the fire! Make this a romantic weekend where you can rekindle your love.
Special Greeting
If your mate has to work late and you know he had a bad day, surprise him with a late-night gourmet meal. When you hear him arrive home, greet him in new, sexy lingerie, a warm kiss, and wonderful hot meal. After he picks himself up off the floor, he will fall in love with you all over again for this wonderful greeting. If reversed and the woman is coming home, after giving her a lingering kiss, have her join you in the dining room where the table is set with soft glowing candles and a wonderful meal. Have an envelope lying by her plate that when opened, she will read, "This certificate is good for one thirty-minute massage after dinner." This is how you keep romance alive!

Just Because
Give your mate gifts "just because." These do not have to be expensive whatsoever. For example, one woman had a miniature dish collection in her kitchen. Her husband came home and told her that he had a gift for her. Holding out her hand, he gently placed in her hand a miniature porcelain cup with her name neatly written in blue ink. She knew that this cup probably cost no more than $2.00 but the thought that he would take the time to find something she enjoyed, was worth $1 million. The small gifts packed with thought are far more cherished.

Say It With Words
Surprise your mate with little notes found in unexpected places. If your mate travels for work, place a loving note somewhere in their suitcase. Perhaps they have a long commute to work. If so, slip a note saying, "I love you," in their CD case where you know they will find it. Another recommendation is sticking a note on the bathroom mirror so this will be the first thing seen in the morning. Be creative and have some fun with this.

Cuddle Time
When couples first start dating, cuddling is usually a part of their everyday existence. However, as the relationship progresses or after children enter the picture, the cuddling stops. Take some time just to cuddle. If your mate is sitting on the couch watching a movie, or laying in bed reading, scoot close and tell them that you just want to cuddle. This makes both people feel secure and loved.

Breakfast In Bed
When was the last time you or your mate were served breakfast in bed? Never? On a Saturday or Sunday, when nothing special is planned, get up a little early and fix their favorite breakfast. Include the morning newspaper as an added bonus. Although they may be shocked, you can be guaranteed that this gesture of love will be appreciated.
Make The Men Feel Good
For the man in your life, here are some recommendations for making him feel special:
Flirt with him in public places
Just once, leave the toilet lid up
Lavish him with compliments
Tell him how sexy he is
Act jealous once in awhile, even if you are not
Remind him that he is a wonderful mate, husband, father, whichever applies
Tell him how handsome you find him

Make The Women Feel Good
Just like men, woman love feeling good about themselves. These recommendations might help:
Tell her how beautiful she is
Compliment her on her many skills (be specific)
Just once, leave the toilet seat down
Tell her how much she means to you
Let her know that she is your best friend
Show affectionate to her in front of family and friends
Let her know that you find her to be sexy

That Kiss
As couples become comfortable with each other, kisses can become lame. Get rid of the pecks and get serious with the kisses. The next time the two of you greet each other, enjoy your kiss and do not be so quick to stop. While there are appropriate times for serious kissing, they should be loving, sincere, and passionate, regardless of how long they last. You will find that as you pay attention to your kissing and let your mate know that you enjoy kissing them, you will both feel better about your relationship.

Be Kind To One Another
Unbelievably, kindness is often over simplified. Even good relationships can lack acts of kindness. This refers to "Do unto others…" Simple acts of kindness can have huge impacts on a relationship. If your husband or boyfriend is out working on the car on a hot summer day, make a thermos of ice-cold tea and take it to him, giving him a gentle kiss. If your wife or girlfriend has been working at the computer all day, walk up behind her and massage her shoulders and neck. You get the idea. Kindness means looking at the other person's situation and seeing what you can do or add to that situation to make it better or easier. This is a way to validate your respect for each other. Kindness will go a long way in a relationship.

Special Hobby
Find some type of hobby that you both enjoy and then do it together. It might be that you both love refurnishing furniture. Turn this into an adventure of going to estate sales together to find nice pieces of furniture and them refurbishing them as a team. Another option would be if you have both wanted to learn how to ballroom or salsa dance. Take lessons together so you can then go out on the town and dance the night away. This is a great way to make your relationship even stronger while adding in something fun that you both enjoy.
Listen - Really ListenGet into a habit of listening to what your mate is saying. Not the kind of listening that you do when you go out or sit at the dinner table, but a different kind of listening. Have you ever overheard your mate make a comment to a friend or family member about something they really want or want to do? Maybe you heard your boyfriend or husband tell a friend that they would love a certain tool. For no reason whatsoever, make a special effort to get that for him. You might have heard your girlfriend or wife mention a spa that they would love to try. Again, without any reason, surprise her. This shows that your mate is really paying attention to things important to you.

Be A Kid
Do not be a prude. There is absolutely no reason why couples at any age cannot get into tickling matches or wrestle on the floor. Do not allow your relationship to grow old and stale. Understand and accept that it is perfectly fine to be silly from time to time. If you have nothing special planned on a Friday night, rent a few games, order in Chinese, plug in the Play Station, and play games.

All Decked Out
Although most people do not get dressed formally to go out, as a special treat, find an upscale restaurant, the opera, or even a ball, where the man can wear a tuxedo and the woman an evening gown. If possible, rent a limousine and have a bottle of champagne chilling before you get in. You will both feel good about yourselves and spending this magical evening together. This is something unique that brings another unexpected twist into the relationship, which keeps things interesting and alive. The two of you will have a romantic night that you will never forget.

Showing Love
Although hearing the words, "I love you" is special and important, sometimes you wish you could tell your mate as well as hear from your mate those words, but in special and unique ways. Here are some ideas of how this can be accomplished:
Rent his favorite movie, even if it is something you do not like, and plan an evening alone where you can be with him as he enjoys his special treat.
When she gets out of the shower, hand her a warm, cozy towel just heated in the dryer.
When you make him pancakes, first pour the words, "I Love You" on the griddle and cook for a minute to brown. Then, pour more batter over the words to create a round pancake. The result will be a pancake displaying those three special words when you flip it over.
While she is out of town, wash her car and surprise her by picking her up in a clean, shiny car at the airport.
Take him out to lunch.
Have his favorite breakfast on the table along with the morning newspaper.
Instead of bugging him to go to the grocery store with you, let him stay home.
Display your favorite picture of the two of you on the refrigerator.
Buy her a subscription to her favorite magazine.
30. Split The Responsibility
Whether dating or married, weekends are always full of errands and chores. If you find that on the weekend things are lopsided, help your mate out. For example, if there are kids involved and one has a soccer game while the other has a baseball game, at the same time, offer to take one of the kids and your mate take the other. Make this a special time by packing a special lunch or snacks. Perhaps one of you has company coming and the house needs to be cleaned, laundry done, and groceries purchased. Set aside something you need done and offer to pitch in to help. Simply say you want to help and ask which of the jobs you can take over. This gesture will show your mate that you really care by sacrificing your time.
Love Means Having to Say You Are Sorry
If you make a mistake by doing or saying something that is hurtful or damaging to the relationship, say that you are sorry. Many people struggle with these words, even when they know that what they did was wrong. It actually takes a strong person to apologize. Do not wait until you think you have the courage but say it immediately, and with sincerity. Too often when couples argue, there is a long period of silence, which actually makes the anger and tension worse. You need to let your mate know immediately that you made a mistake and ask for forgiveness.

Be Yourself
Do not be phony in your relationship, trying to be someone or something different as a way to please your mate. For a relationship to work, both people need to be themselves and react to things naturally. Just imagine if you are really kind of on the silly side, enjoying life to the fullest. Then you meet a wonderful person who is much more conservative than you are. Because you are attracted to them, you try to squelch your normal vibrant personality. You are miserable and eventually, the person is going to be exposed to the "real" you. You have to base any relationship on honesty or it will eventually fall apart.

Maintain Your Health
You might think - what does good health have to do with a good relationship? In reality, it has a lot to do with it. Having a good relationship means having the energy to enjoy getting out and doing things together. To do that, it is important to eat right. When people are tired, they become short-tempered and frustrated. For this reason, it is important to get the right amount of sleep. Good exercise keeps your body in shape for being adventurous together. Taking care of your body and mind will flow over into your relationship and make you a calmer, stronger, and better-balanced person.

Compliment - A Lot
Be generous with compliments. It is very common for people to notice something nice about another person and think about it internally, but never voice it. When in a relationship, compliments are like glue. They hold the couple's attention and respect. Make sure your compliments are genuine and based on something you see or hear your mate do. If you have a clogged garbage disposal and your boyfriend or husband is able to unclog it, compliment them on being handy. If your girlfriend or wife takes her mother to the doctor, compliment her on her generosity. The fact is that criticism is destructive and can very quickly tear a relationship apart. Just like the cliché, "If you do not have something nice to say, then do not say anything at all." This is very true - take notice of the good things your mate does and make it known to them that you see and appreciate those things.

Realistic Expectations
No matter how wonderful and flawless your mate seems, no one is perfect. Be careful about putting someone on a pedestal, especially in the early stages of your relationship. Make sure that the expectations you have for your mate and yourself are realistic. There are going to be differences in opinion, and probably some disagreements. Also, do not assume that your mate knows how you feel or what you think about something. When discussing something important to you, ensure that you both understand the same thing. The reality is that neither one of you is going to know exactly what the other one needs. As long as you do not expect them to read your mind and accept that this is a part of getting to know one another and communicating, you will be fine.
Leave the Baggage Behind
Every person on the face of the Earth has some kind of history, or "baggage", although at varying levels. Do not walk into a relationship with your arms loaded with that baggage. The past is the past. Even though there are things from the past that are hurtful, and even damaging, learn from those things and come out a better and stronger person. This allows you to step into a new relationship with better knowledge of what not to do. Leave the baggage from the past alone, focus on today, and look forward to tomorrow.

Do Not Repeat, Do Not Repeat, Do Not Repeat
Learn from your mistakes. When something goes wrong and the two of you work through it, do not repeat the same mistake. Rather than dive right back into whatever it was you did or said, think before you act. At first, this will take some discipline but as you see positive results in the relationship, be encouraged that it is working.

Go on a Date
Especially for married couples, but even for some "dating" couples, start dating. Often people become very comfortable in their relationship and sitting around on the weekends, watching movies is about as exciting as it gets. Ask your mate out. For example, actually call them and ask, "If you do not have any plans for Saturday night, would you like to go to a concert with me?" It is crucial to relationships that they keep the fire alive by enjoying the act of dating. There are many people in long-term, successful marriages that will tell you they go out on dates every week, which has been a huge bonus for their relationship.

Memory Box
Start a memory box to store old movie tickets, brochures from cities visited, concert ticket stubs, old ski lift passes, cards attached to flowers received, old love notes or letters, birthday cards or anniversary cards from your mate, anything that the two of you did together. Every once in awhile, pull the box out and look at the items with your mate. Reminisce about each memento, and keep all the special times in your life close to your heart!
Listen to How You Talk
When working on your relationship, more than likely you and your mate have settled into a pattern of speaking to each other. It might be with short, blunt answers, heavy sighs as though bothered, or with negative remarks. Pay attention to not only your words spoken, but also the tone in which they are spoken. Be positive, cheery, and respond in a way that will confirm to your mate that you are listening and truly interested - that you have time to listen and communicate. In addition, add terms of endearment into your conversation. Instead of "Good morning," try, "Hi honey, good morning!"

Making Love
Intimacy is a huge part of a successful relationship. Choose a book from the bookstore and try to bring a little excitement into your relationship. Do not be afraid to experiment and learn new and exciting ways to please each other. Keeping intimacy alive is healthy and not a bad thing whatsoever!

Turn the Computer Off
Often the computer becomes a replacement for a lack of something in the relationship. It might be just surfing, playing games, or getting involved with websites that promote pornography. If you notice that your mate is spending more and more time on the computer, take this as a sign that even if not doing anything wrong, they are choosing to spend the time with the computer instead of you. In other words, use this as a sign that something is missing in your relationship. Start by talking and searching to confirm what it is bothering your mate and then work on making it better!

Follow Tradition
Keep some tradition in your marriage, which relates to the vows you took and the fact that marriage is sacred. Treat each anniversary as a celebration of your love and the time spent together. Follow the traditional anniversary gifts and see how creative you can be. The first year anniversary gift is paper. One husband bought his wife a beautiful Chinese drawing on rice paper, signed by the artist, and had it framed for her. Make this fun, exciting, and keep traditions alive.

Control Your Anger
Every relationship has difficulties, and sometimes, there can be some intense arguments. For the sake of your relationship and the love you have for your mate, keep your anger in check. First, when people are angry, hurtful words fly, usually not even meant. However, after spoken, it is too late to take them back - the damage is done. Another problem with anger is that the word "divorce" can easily be thrown around. You may not mean it, but you know it hurts, thus making you the winner of the argument. NEVER talk about divorce in your relationship, even if just teasing. If you need to go to another room to cool off, and then do that, but whatever you do, do not allow your anger to take control of your relationship.

Financial Woes
One of the main reasons other than fidelity that marriages fall apart is due to finances. When couples are struggling with money problems, tempers flare, frustration builds, drinking may start, and it is an all-around unhealthy situation. The minute there are any signs of financial difficulties, the two of you need to immediately sit down and figure out a plan on how to deal with the problem. If needed, go to see a financial consultant or a credit counseling service to help you get back on track. Do not allow your finances to get out of line or your relationship will certainly suffer.

I Forgive You
If something has happened in your relationship causing the trust to waiver, you will have many things to work through. When your mate has done something that requires you to forgive, you have to forgive, REALLY forgive. Once you have worked through the issue either together or with professional counseling, and you tell them that you forgive them, you can never hold that over them again. As an example, if your mate has had an affair and the two of you choose to work it out rather than throw the relationship away, once the problems are resolved and the forgiveness is said, it is done! This means that you cannot stalk your mate to ensure they are where they said they would be, call or page them throughout the day, constantly ask for reaffirmation of your relationship, it means that you forgive and put the past behind you and then move on in a new, strong, and healthy relationship . It will not be easy, but you can do it with the right help, attitude, and commitment.

Fighting No-No
While having disagreements is normal and sometimes when controlled, healthy for relationships, the place and degree of discussion are important. Keep your disagreements private. Being at a party or anywhere around family or friends and breaking into an argument is a great way to break down a relationship. Not only does it cause embarrassment for your mate, but it also puts a negative light on both of you from the people witnessing the fight. If you are in public and think you need to argue, at least find a quiet corner or separate room where you can discuss whatever it is bothering you.

Strong Family Ties
When in a relationship, not only are you involved with the love of your life, but also the family of your mate. It is important to build a strong, healthy relationship with the families as well. Even if you do not see them often, having a good connection with your mate's family will make life for everyone much better all the way around.

Mentoring
If you know of another couple from work or your church that has been married for many years and continued to have a strong relationship, ask them if they would mentor you. Being around positive influences and watching someone who leads by example is a great way to learn how to have a good relationship for yourself.
12-Month Calendar
As a special gift, have a 12-month calendar created with pictures of special times spent between the two of you. Arrange the pictures to coordinate with the months and then as a Christmas or birthday gift, or just as a special surprise, present it to your loved one.

Something Handmade
You do not have to be a world-renowned artist to make something homemade and special for the love of your life. Even making a special, personalized greeting card would be appreciated and show your mate that you care enough to take the time needed to make something by hand.

Favorite Meal
If your mate has a meal, that is by far the favorite above everything else, go all out and prepare everything to order. Before they arrive home, put on something nice and a little sexy, light some candles, and have a wonderful surprise waiting.

Day at the Movies
Have a movie marathon some rainy or cold Saturday. Put all your errands and chores on hold and head to your nearest theater. Hit three or four movies and mix it up. Buy the theater popcorn and drinks but sneak your own candy in. This is a great way to spend some fun time together, holding hands or cuddling, while sharing some laughs and maybe tears watching a variety of flicks.
A Walk in the Park
Spending quality time together where you can talk and just enjoy each other's company is critical to a good relationship. Plan a nice walk in the park to include a comfortable blanket to sit on the grass with while having a good old-fashioned picnic. Take this time talk, watch other people with their kids, and then just walk around, hand-in-hand.

Name a Star
As a special gift, ask your mate to join you outside at night when the sky is black and the stars shining brightly. Point up to the universe and state, "See that star over there? That is your star. I bought it for you." Then present them with the certificate showing that they do in fact have a star named after them. This wonderful gift will last a lifetime!

Coupon Book
Create a coupon book filled with any number you like of 20-minute massages. One day when least expected, when your mate comes dragging in the door tired after a long, hard day at work, present this along with a gentle kiss. Although you are the one offering the massages, if you remain faithful to your coupons and never grumble, your love life will more than likely be enhanced and before long, your mate will be the one giving you massages.

Dinner by the Fire
Order in some of your favorite food, open a bottle of fine wine, light some candles, and lay out a cozy blanket in front of a roaring fire. Enjoy feeding each other food, sneaking little kisses in between. This wonderful romantic moment will help build your relationship even stronger. This kind of gesture shows your mate that you really want something special from your relationship and that spending quality time together is a priority.

Scavenger Hunt
If things have been a little stressed in your relationship, do something extra special. Start by creating a trail of rose petals from the door to the kitchen where your mate will find a note to go to the bedroom. In the bedroom, have another note next to an overnight bag telling them to meet you at a specific hotel restaurant where you know the ambience is cozy and romantic. The note should direct them to ask for you at the restaurant where you will be waiting to enjoy a fine dinner together. After dinner and cocktails, gently lead your mate by the hand to a beautiful room that you have reserved for the night. There on the bed is a robe and a red rose. This will do more for your relationship than you can imagine.
Photo Album
As a wonderful keepsake, create a photo album for your mate. Include the parents or siblings to come up with some special childhood and teenage pictures. Include family, friends, special occasions, and times of the two of you together. Whenever the two of you feel as though you are drifting apart or taking one another for granted, pull out the photo album as a reminder of the incredible person in your life.

The Art of Gift Giving
Everyone loves to be given a gift, especially as a surprise or "just because." Just remember while giving gifts is a beautiful thing to do for the person you love, there are five key essentials for making your mate know that you are giving just because you love them. First, put some thought into the gift. Do not just pick up something at the last minute so you are not empty handed. Second, make the effort. Even if you have a busy schedule, be sure to schedule time to shop. Third, give with the right attitude. You give because you appreciate and love, not because you want something back. Fourth, plan what you are going to give. Find something that is important for your mate and not necessarily to you. Finally, add the element of surprise into the gift giving. Using this equation is sure to impress your mate and leave a lasting impression.

Thunderstorms
While some people find thunderstorms to be scary, they can also be viewed as being romantic. If you have having a thunderstorm in your area, without putting yourself in harm's way, sit out on your porch if the storm is still off in the distance, or cuddled on the couch near a large window and just watch the lightening together.

Take Pride in Yourself
Every relationship goes through down time. Just because the flame has become a mild flicker, that does not mean you have lost the love for each other, it just means you need to add a little fuel to the fire. When couples have been together for a long time, the makeup comes off, the nice clothes turn into oversized sweats and tee shirts, and instead of cuddling on the sofa or floor, one sits on the couch and the other in the recliner. Step back in time and start getting dressed up more on the weekends, invite your mate to sit with you on the couch, dance together in your living room to some music, or take a walk, hand in hand. It is important not to let yourself go, even when your relationship reaches a "comfortable" state. By taking pride in yourself means that you take pride in your relationship.

No Jealousy Allowed
To have a healthy relationship, caring and concern are fine but when those emotions change into jealousy, this could be the beginning of trouble. Trust is probably the number one element needed in order to have a strong relationship. Without trust, things will quickly deteriorate. If one of you masters something special, receives a promotion at work, or achieves some great feat, there could be a small spark of jealousy on the other person's side. You need to talk about this and ensure that any feelings of inadequacies are permanently put to rest. Every person needs assurance at some time or another and as long as you can communicate, things will be fine. However, if your mate becomes withdrawn or irritated, these could be signs that more is going on. Once jealousy enters a relationship, problems are soon to follow.

Keep in Touch
If you are in a relationship, where your mate serves in the armed forces and is overseas or in another state on duty, away in a foreign country for school, or separated from you for one reason or another, it is important that you keep in touch with each other often. There will be stress from the separation but by keeping in touch and informing each other of the things each person is dealing with, how they feel, etc., you will not have any break in your communication. The goal is that when you get back together, you can easily pick up where you left off. This is a very important time to provide each other with confirmation of your love and validation of your relationship. While this will require some extra effort on both parts, keep in mind that the separation is not forever.
Special Music
Select numerous songs that your mate would enjoy and have them either recorded on a cassette or burned on a CD that can be enjoyed while driving to and from work. To add a little spice, record a few secret messages every few songs just reminding them how much you love and appreciate them.
Motivate Each Other
Find a mutual incentive that will motivate both of you to being the best you can be. Find something that you can both be excited about and then attach some type of reward to the motivation. If one of you has had a dream of writing a screenplay, make that your goal and take that on together. The motivation is that when finished, the two of you will take a beautiful, romantic weekend vacation to some exotic place. The goal could be anything that is important to one person or both and that can be worked toward completion together. Another example would be if your mate has always dreamed of buying an old model car and restoring it do it together and then take a special trip to the Indy 500 as your reward. Yet another example might be to restore a home. Make this a joint project and then as a reward, add a Jacuzzi into your plans. Use your imagination and enjoy the venture together.
Follow Your Instincts
When things are going in a wrong direction, often people will simply keep going in the same direction while hoping that things work themselves out. The result is usually negative. Instead, listen to your gut feelings, your inner instincts. If you believe that something is bothering your mate or not right in your relationship, keep it between you and your mate and work things out as a couple.

Be Creative
The words, "I love you," are always welcomed but why not add some creativity to the way you tell your mate you love them. Rent a billboard in a location where you know your mate drives every day that clearly says, "I love you," request that your mate's radio station play a special song and message on his or her way to work, or if celebrating a special anniversary, have a skywriter fly by a ball stadium, park, or somewhere special where you are spending quality time together outdoors.

Make Eye Contact
You may not think this is important, but think back to the first time you saw your now mate. More than likely, the first interaction was through eye contact. If you are having dinner during the holidays with a large group of family and friends, glance over to your mate and give them a seductive wink, or if your mate is giving a speech and you are there to offer support, attentively look at them, making directly eye contact and offer a warm reassuring smile. Eyes can say a lot!

Learn More about Your Mate
Either find a good questionnaire or create one that does not dig up the past, but focuses on discovering other qualities about each other. One happily married couple did this and the wife, who had been standing by her husband for more than 10 years, discovered that he used to be a competitive ice skater. She had no idea. Guess what they did on Saturday?

Change Routines
Understand that every once in a while, it is important to throw an exciting curve into your relationship. If you are in a routine for example of offering your mate a quick peck on the lips before you part ways for the day, try adding a soft, gentle kiss on the neck. You can be assured that throughout the day, that change in routine, is what will be on your mate's mind.
Dance
Finding a nice place where the two of you can enjoy a slow dance is a great way to spend time together, holding each other without saying a word. Keep in mind that to accomplish this, you can stay home and simply move some furniture out of the way, light some candles, and put on your favorite soft music and enjoy some quiet, romantic time together.

Sunrise/Sunset
Too often people miss the beautiful miracle of a sunrise or sunset. Schedule time to get up early one morning with a thermos of hot coffee or cappuccino and find a quiet place where the two of you can go just to watch the sun rise or set. Appreciate what nature has to offer and share it with each other.

To Tell or Not to Tell
Experts will disagree on how much of a person's past should be shared in a relationship and while some things probably should be shared, most people lean more to not sharing every aspect of the past. First, it is the past. Think back to how much people grow through the teen years to mid-twenties. Offering unnecessary information from the past is a great way to create distrust, insecurity, and more questions than answers. Be wise when sharing.

Respect Privacy
When two people come together in a relationship, each person has their own set of history. There are yearbooks, maybe love letters from a first love, other objects that may not seem important to one person but to the owner, they have a special meaning. It is important to respect the privacy of your mate's "stuff." Do not dig through boxes of things owned by your mate out of curiosity. Instead, allow them to bring those things out if they feel it is necessary. By helping yourself, you are disrespecting something sacred to your mate, which is not healthy for any relationship.
No Place for Abuse
Regardless of how much you love your mate and believe in who they are, there is NEVER an appropriate time for abuse, whether physical, emotional, or verbal. If your mate shows aggression or any form of abuse toward you, seek counseling for both of you immediately to try to work through things. If your mate refuses to go, even if it is hard, leave. First is your safety. Second, it is possible for people to learn ways in which to manage their aggressions. If this is the case, the life of the relationship has a much better chance of surviving!

Open Your Eyes
Do not drive yourself crazy with this, but take notice of how your relationship is going. Open your eyes and take stock of what is and is not working in your relationship. Are there definite things missing or definite problem areas that need to be worked on? Think about it. If you invest in the stock market, you pay attention to what is going on so you can make changes if needed. Your relationship is far more than the stock market but requires some of the same strategies.

The Grass is NOT Greener!
Too many times, people get tired of working on the relationship they are currently in and feel that by moving on to another person, they will find greener pastures. This is just not the case. What happens is when you move to another person, things are fresh, new, and exciting just as they were in the beginning of your current relationship. Within time, that relationship will also start experiencing differences and bumps in the road. Unless you are being abused or your mate is doing something illegal or completely irresponsible, perhaps the efforts you would put into starting a new relationship would be better spent fixing the one you have.

Start a Journal
Keep your personal feelings and discoveries about your mate in a journal. This will help to remember what special things he or she likes or dislikes, track the wonderful times spent together, and help you to feel better when you hit an obstacle in your relationship. When things get a little tough, refer to your journal and read through all the terrific emotions and time together and you will find plenty of reasons to make things right again.

Be Flexible
Remember that relationships are give and take situations, not competition between two people who love each other. There will be times when your mate is right and times when you are right. When you feel the conversation getting a little on the edgy side with each of you trying to hold ground, do not forget that there can be many ways to accomplish the same task. The result is that each of you might learn something new from the other person. Put your heads together and do what makes the most sense instead of battling for ownership of the solution.
Cut out the Excuses
A major turn-off in many situations, not only relationships, is people who have an excuse for everything. Forget that. Do not make excuses in fear of your mate not liking, loving, or respecting you. Be yourself and if you messed up with something, just admit to it. Say you had promised to make dinner, got home exhausted, and just did not feel like making it, do not tell your mate, "I had to work overtime." Be honest and say, "You know, I got home after a busy day and I was too tired. What sounds better, Chinese or Pizza?" This has taken you out of the situation of lying and reconfirmed your honest nature to your mate.

Work and Home Do Not Mingle
How many times have you heard this? It is true. While sharing experiences about your day with your mate is perfectly normal, living your work at home is not. If you have to bring work home, set a specific amount of time it will take you to complete, let your mate know, and then when quitting time comes, quit! It is important to separate the two parts of your life and keep you work at the job, and when at home, pay attention to your mate and/or family.

Encourage Friendships
Men, unlike women, have a more difficult time in developing close friendships with other men. This is a natural part of life and while they may have some buddies from high school or college that they see on occasion, rarely do they set specific time aside just for friends. Men and women both need an outlet outside of the relationship where they can just "let their guard down" and have some fun with the same gender. As your mate makes new friendships, encourage that growth and show 100% support!

Confidentiality
Women are usually blessed with the gift of gab, making it easy, sometimes too easy, to talk to other people. Keep information shared to you by your mate in 100% confidence. Unless they have told you of a crime they have committed, they are confiding in you and placing full trust in your relationship. All it takes is one time of spilling private information for the entire relationship to suffer.
As you can see, relationships take work. However, with the right attitude, a lot of hard work, and some unique ideas on how to make it successful, couples can have a strong, lifelong relationship!
To add to above I would just add my vishesh tipni..
1. Family is important.. no matter you like or dislike each others family .. still they are important.. so please respect.
2. DO NOT WATCH EMOTIONAL ATTYACHAAR - Please.. it would spoil your relationship drastically. It is a big disaster. Even if you partner is true still poor guy/girl is under suspision. Let right time come if you love your partner and your partner loves you and if you keep on creating that spark in your relationship then I bet there would be no place for third person between you. And if your love is true he/she is yours so learn to trust.. FYI, Emotional Attyachaar is all payed scandal do not believe it.. thats what I have heard and read in newspapers.
3. Be romantic.. Create spark in your relation...
4. SUPPORT, LOVE, TRUST AND FORGIVE are four keys to successful relationship.

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